Session 35
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Session 35
Beauty, Fame, & Still Betrayed
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Celebrity relationships got us in a group chat again. Did he fumble or nahh?
Greetings And Catching Up
SPEAKER_07What up though? What up though? We are here. What up y'all? Okay, what up? Happy Wednesday. Happy Wednesday, y'all. What up though, y'all? It's been a couple weeks. It's been more than a couple weeks, y'all. It's been a couple weeks. Yeah. Really? Yeah. I might be too busy.
SPEAKER_04Maybe I should ask after after. Okay.
Why Facebook Lives Disappear
SPEAKER_04You know how we be sharing this or whatever? Like, I noticed that it be deleting.
SPEAKER_07Yes. Facebook deletes after 30 days, I think. Since when? Where y'all be? But they I ain't on there. But I'm just saying they don't delete them. Oh, memory are alive. Right. From 15, 25 years ago, they bring them back. Exactly. Yeah. So when you go live, it disappears after 30 days. Okay.
SPEAKER_06Okay. So that's why I've been pushing people to take their butts on over to uh to YouTube. And follow up on YouTube.
SPEAKER_07Follow us on YouTube. Please do. Check us out on YouTube.
Sean E Joins The Conversation
SPEAKER_06We as y'all can see, we got our one of our favorite guests back in the house, Mr. Sean E, comedian Sean E. Yes, whatever. Okay. He about to if y'all ever seen him in the comments. He only gets on our whole nurse. We finna find out. We finna find out how he finna act today.
SPEAKER_02Before y'all start, I just want to say thank you to y'all. Like, thank you to y'all for like just letting me host y'all event last time. Like, I had so much fun.
SPEAKER_07You had me laughing. Oh, thank you. No, that's all I'm about to say. Thank you.
SPEAKER_02It was my first time doing something like that. Now I'm a lot of people say they like it. Are you serious? Yeah.
SPEAKER_06See, and that was our first time doing something like that. He brought he lived at our spirit the whole night, though. The whole me being nervous and all that, laughing took it out the window. Yeah, he brought our anxiety all the way down.
SPEAKER_07All the way down, especially since we was in an event where there was no alcohol.
SPEAKER_02And it wasn't no security. That's why we're talking about it. We passed that. We move it forward. We go, you know what I'm saying? No, we were safe. I know.
SPEAKER_00We was.
SPEAKER_02I went back to the car, like, wait, no, hey, nobody got to go.
The Event Story And Safety Talk
SPEAKER_00I was pregnant always.
SPEAKER_07I said, we already did it. That showed you that we was just trying to be around love and have good vibes.
SPEAKER_00Some dude had to do shy. He was real lovable though. I can't remember who they were. I don't know who that was, but I didn't see that. I don't know. Y'all gonna make me go back and watch this video. Oh my god, don't do that. We're live, right?
SPEAKER_06Okay, yeah. Simmer down. Yes, please. Whatever. We appreciate you. Yes, we do.
Megan And Klay Relationship Debate
SPEAKER_06All right, so of course we had to tap into this Megan Clay situation.
SPEAKER_02Because I'm light skinned.
SPEAKER_06On today because he's light skinned.
SPEAKER_02So you get jumped on the thing. Explain this situation to me though, because I heard about it, but I don't know.
SPEAKER_06Which one of y'all know more about it? You because you suggest it.
SPEAKER_04So I know Gina be watching it. She be listening about it. I don't know.
SPEAKER_07I be watching it. She be flipping through shit. Because TikTok, y'all know I love TikTok. You know, Facebook home drama. I don't want to know about that. I'd be over there with real stuff go down and sure.
SPEAKER_03Come on, Kira.
SPEAKER_07But I had a question about that because in her statement, she said he didn't want to be monogamous. Right. Right? So were they not already in a relationship? Because don't that mean no relationship was established. Well, no. So how they break up?
SPEAKER_04So she found out he was cheating. He said after he got caught, that's when he was supposed to say that.
SPEAKER_05Oh, okay. He said he got caught.
SPEAKER_04He was supposed to tell her that. And then he said, He don't think he could be with one part, one woman.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_04Yes. Okay. I mean, so that's what it was.
SPEAKER_02300 million. That man has made 300 million dollars. What do that mean? But if y'all ain't seen this nigga married yet, or you know what I'm saying? I mean that relationship. He ain't been committed to nobody, right?
SPEAKER_00No, we don't know that.
SPEAKER_02How we know that he dated the chick, uh Spider-Man's girlfriend in the movie. He had her, he had Coco, he had Coco Jones and cheated on her.
SPEAKER_04He had Coco Jones. Okay, but sometimes man's change. Y'all saying But you ain't gonna change for a Meg the Stallion. It don't matter who we know that. Why would you? Why not? What that means is showing right now.
SPEAKER_02You don't listen to her lyrics.
SPEAKER_06A lot of men out here who rap who rap and who you don't want to listen to them neither, but they don't mean they're not good. It's just music.
SPEAKER_02No, it's not it's not though. It's not some people it is, it's not, you can't it's just making money. And don't don't get me wrong, she's smart, you know. I'm saying she probably not even writing all her lyrics. She did what she did, but like let she not know some of them don't write. Don't say that. She ain't she not wholesome. She's not he not either now. I'm not saying that, but as a man, that's what you look for. You look for something.
SPEAKER_04I understand that. How you looking for that and you still cheating?
SPEAKER_02It's two different things, though, right? You wouldn't want a man that's like you.
SPEAKER_04I would because I'm perfect.
SPEAKER_02You need a balance, like a gentleman. 10 out of 10. See if we can smoke. You know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_06Do y'all think he ever had serious intentions for their relationship?
SPEAKER_04I think she did. She was cooking for the family and everything. I really think she liked him.
SPEAKER_07Oh, why don't we think that's so special? So I don't sell dinners, right? Like, I mean, cooking for somebody's family is not special. I I think that's why a lot of women get hurt. I'm not cooking, but I think that's why we get hurt because we do so many things. We still feel like it's so special and it's not. But they were in a relationship.
SPEAKER_02So like she pick up anything he needed. Like, did she fill a gap? You you you're talking about a rich man, a man that don't need you to cook or clean. Like, we already got somebody for that. So you gotta, when you come into my life, you gotta fill the void that I'm missing. So as a woman, that's what you pick up on.
SPEAKER_04Like, so are we supposed to know that void?
SPEAKER_02As a woman, if you're paying attention to me and we together, you're gonna okay.
SPEAKER_04But why do men do that? Why do I have to? I don't even know how to say it. Y'all come with the female in the city. Like, how did that? How can you tell the baggage though?
SPEAKER_02What yeah, no baggage. Six five light skins, 300 million.
SPEAKER_07Well, what baggage she got? I mean, she didn't come with no baggage. That's what I'm trying to figure out. What she's saying, online. That's that's no other girls he was talking about. That's a building. I girl, but I okay, but people play a part in it. I think that play a part in it. I think a lot of women don't believe in changing. I believe that when you get somebody and you really want to settle down, some things need to change. So twerking on the internet, if that's what you was doing, maybe you need to come to a heart. Being naked, they not married, they're not about not changing your career up. It's about it's not even what you do, it's how you do it. No, I'm just saying from a man. What she promotes, she promotes is WAP.
SPEAKER_02So that's what he inquired about.
SPEAKER_07Okay, pause. I think because he got what Megan is saying. We know what she's promoting. We know her because we know what she's doing.
SPEAKER_02We don't know if you downloaded her for what, though.
SPEAKER_07That's what I'm saying. So I'm saying he got with her. Y'all made it public. Y'all made it public. I doubt if he was with tell me why you think he was so he clearly was something. I really think it was something.
SPEAKER_02You it's a connection there. No, I don't think it was funny.
SPEAKER_04Because why would you say you want to be with multiple women now?
SPEAKER_02Because that's what he'd been doing.
SPEAKER_04I uh yeah, I agree.
SPEAKER_06I agree why I said it was a relationship, in my opinion. Of course, we don't know, right? But why I say that is because if whoever he was smashing that we don't know of, he didn't post them all day, he didn't go public, he didn't take them home, cook dinner for their family.
SPEAKER_07So something was different there, which made her feel like this is different. So being posted make us special. No, but it showed different. You moving different with me than you move with the last five years. But she was posted on X. That don't mean nothing like X. He posted him. No, not posted. I'm saying different houses, buying both. These are different movements that he was doing. Not to him, he's a millionaire. We can't say that he didn't have no feelings for her.
SPEAKER_04Now y'all just trying to do it.
SPEAKER_02But he's tricking on a different level. He's tricking on a different level. No, that's not what I was still single.
SPEAKER_07Give me a shot. Y'all let me finish. Go ahead. I want to finish. I want to hear it. Go ahead. I want to hear it. I'm gonna hear it.
SPEAKER_06I'm not saying that. First off, even for me, I wouldn't look at that as oh, I'm so special, I'm so this. I'm just paying attention because when you're dating, you need to pay attention to how that man is moving. So if you're moving like this and you didn't move like that with the fat last five chicks, I'm a little bit I'm looking like okay, it's going somewhere. But she don't know I personally, I don't know. I was like looking at, I didn't think none of that was going nowhere in from the beginning, but I'm just saying that's how she probably felt it didn't look real to me. It just didn't look so y'all saying nothing, he didn't look genuine at all. Home girl was doing the most, and I ain't never seen her do that with other relationships. I think she really liked it. I think she really liked it.
SPEAKER_07So this is this is the problem that I had with this whole situation was that after he cheated, all of this stuff come out. But y'all posting on on Instagram or all on social media talk showing how happy y'all was, but now he's me. Now he's this, now he's that, right? You know, like this is why I do not get in celebrities. But there's three sides to a story all the time, but still, true, and there's also just dating, or y'all, y'all in the past.
SPEAKER_02But there's also a moment for keeping your shit silent, but I'm not gonna post when I'm upset every time I'm telling you, I wouldn't show y'all that so at the end of the day though, the problem is the people that's fan of hers. Like, oh, here we go. Because they they consider him as like like like she the catch.
SPEAKER_04I wouldn't say I'm a fan of her, but I will say I'm gonna go there. We're gonna go there. We're gonna go there. Why not?
SPEAKER_07Why not explain that? Why she not a catch?
SPEAKER_02She's not the catch in that situation for him.
SPEAKER_07She don't know how personally you just want to be.
SPEAKER_02Because it's a difference from entertainment money and athlete money. Can we agree to that?
SPEAKER_07So we just talking about money. No, I we're gonna talk about the relationship.
SPEAKER_02It matters, the money part matters.
SPEAKER_07She got her own money. I mean, so what is that?
SPEAKER_02Right now, just let's think like this. Right now, it's people acting surprised that an athlete cheated on a oh no, I ain't surprised. You feel me?
SPEAKER_07Like, but but when y'all say athlete, everybody makes it seem like that's the only reason we got bright niggas that cheat every day. Okay, it's nothing to do the money so she fumbled the bed.
SPEAKER_01She didn't fumble the baby with the character.
SPEAKER_00She didn't fumbled the bed, it's not comparable.
SPEAKER_06It doesn't matter. I'm just asking, I don't know. I don't think money but do you know her?
SPEAKER_07Because I am one of those people who started dating him.
SPEAKER_02How much is she worth?
SPEAKER_06You didn't what? Don't judge me. I heard the name of the name. You said you didn't know him.
SPEAKER_07I didn't say I did not know him, know him. I knew the name.
SPEAKER_01He top five shooters of all time in the NBA.
SPEAKER_07I did not read that's a lot of women, that's a lot of women, so that's why women is on her side. Hold on, y'all. Women is most definitely on her side because women know her and men know him.
SPEAKER_00That's that Cardi B shit.
SPEAKER_07It's not really about knowing him, so it's it's about the whole situation. But you know what?
SPEAKER_06I think the real outrage coming from when it comes from milk uh women is they feel like and I feel like this too. No, I feel like this too. That's what it was, bro.
SPEAKER_05Yes, it is, and I've been asking. Yes, they were, they thought he was a PR. They thought he was a PR. Who think you nice? He wasn't a child, every every woman like that on sight, like oh, he is so nice. Like I rob him, like a surprise.
SPEAKER_07It's not funny, but he's telling the truth. I blame Tyler Perry. Women go in thinking that you want to know why. He don't be a man, that's not how it works. He don't give out thug boy, bad boy. So when they don't give out thug boy, bad boy, women automatically go in looking at it like he's not gonna do it. He's special, he's soft, he don't know. You got you a light skinned nigga too.
SPEAKER_02You got you a light skinned nigga too.
SPEAKER_07Most definitely, that's how I know.
SPEAKER_02He ain't going either.
SPEAKER_07But it ain't no light skin. It's a light skinned thing, huh? It's not a light skin thing, but people look at them and automatically think that's like men. Men tried them. Y'all don't know.
SPEAKER_02Richest dude she ever been with.
SPEAKER_07Men tried light-skinned niggas. You see a light-skinned nigga, cute hair, wavy, uh, nice hair, and a ponytail, green eye. See, niggas don't think he a bitch off real because he's a handsome guy. If you see a guy that's rough, black, you know, big you think he's a scary guy. I'm gonna go there, but it's not that so. Can I ask you a question?
SPEAKER_04Why do you think he cheated on her in a man's perspective? Honestly, okay, because he wanted to, because he went, he didn't I want to hear what he said.
SPEAKER_02He didn't he didn't agree with the terms of the contract, and so that's that's how I am. It's a contract. Like, if I'm dealing with you, it's really a contract, like it's certain we're gonna both agree on, and we can work on the terms of the contract. Like, if we're not together together, we just doing this shit, it's benefiting you and it's getting my name up too. Like, yeah, so that's just what it is.
SPEAKER_06So if it happened the way they're saying it happened, him leading her thinking it's a monograph's wayship, it took nothing for him to say.
SPEAKER_07I I doubt if he, I mean, even if he didn't happen that make you know that this is not what it is, yo. We gotta stop being like playing how to do it. Yeah, but we're gonna make people be accountable.
SPEAKER_02You have people she could have went home if we play house.
SPEAKER_07So we gotta have a whole doubt. What do you mean? Okay, so she should be like, we also gotta be accountable, dude. There's a lot of men that think that women wouldn't be. We'd be very delusional. She Ben saw signs.
SPEAKER_04Remember, she had that on there. What did she put on her? I can't read it word by word, but she then saw these red flags because she said he's insecure and stuff like that. So she been knew it was a red flag.
SPEAKER_07Okay, that's my he is secure.
SPEAKER_02Don't start this. I'm just saying because, like, if a dude cheat, it could have just been a mistake, right? It could have just been I fucked up.
SPEAKER_04No, you know what you're doing, baby. No, no, no, no, no. Now we're talking about what you're doing.
SPEAKER_02We're talking about a new relationship, right? No, I know new relationships. That was a new, they still was a new coach.
SPEAKER_07You a grown man, you still agreed to contract.
SPEAKER_02When I first like if if I if I meet you and we agree to start dating, now we just building something. So, where do all my old hoes go? You think they just disappear?
SPEAKER_04You think them hoes if y'all dating and you and we have that conversation?
SPEAKER_07We are delusional because we know they didn't disappear. Because guess what? I'm a woman and mine didn't disappear. They talked away, yeah. They just other side.
SPEAKER_04My thing is y'all don't know if they weren't in a relationship. We're just going off of what we're thinking here and there.
SPEAKER_02Why would we assume they in a relationship? They just dealing with each other. Right. She got her a rich nigga.
SPEAKER_07Listen, I'm not a family at all. You can show her my house is a big one.
SPEAKER_02You gonna cook for a nigga family if he got 300 million?
SPEAKER_07Listen, he got 300 million. She got our own money. You can talk about money wise. She has her own money. So look, it don't matter.
SPEAKER_00It do matter. It do matter. We say buy the house, right? We say buy the house, right? Well, how many of y'all go buy a house with a nigga? We're not doing it.
SPEAKER_05But something with a more thing about it is.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, we look at you a million different because we don't have it, y'all. So we have to realize that we look at oh, buying somebody something for a hundred thousand dollars is a lot. But for a guy who got three hundred million, buying somebody something for a hundred thousand dollars is like buying you something for five hundred. But we know, but I'm not putting my name on nothing with this man if I don't know him. How do we know that that happened? Did we see it? That's what I'm saying. That's why I'm saying about the relationship.
SPEAKER_00Just because social media bought it together.
SPEAKER_07No, no, okay, just because social the first thing is everybody believes what we see on social media just because social media said that dummy's buying the house together, that don't mean that they necessarily was buying a house together. He could have been buying her a house alone, or he could have been buying him a house and she was there looking. When people see things, they automatically assume we don't know that they really was buying the house. That's just like we hang out with guys for three, four, five months, and automatically we think we in a relationship with them. In his mind, we ain't in a relationship. She deserves it. We just hanging out.
SPEAKER_02I think she deserves to be hurt because they do they do us, they do us light skinned niggas wrong.
SPEAKER_05We about to talk.
SPEAKER_02So this is this is what it really be. These women be out here all the time. Niggas ain't gotta wait to hit or nothing. As soon as you get a light skinned nigga, like, I gotta roll. I just did my Carfax. You've been hit the first date every time. Now you get me, it's like, oh yeah, I'm a hold up.
SPEAKER_04No one does.
SPEAKER_02Don't change who you are because you met a light-skinned man. That's oh you know what I'm saying. Why can't why I can't be a what nice stand?
SPEAKER_06No, no, let's go here.
Why Black Women Feel Unprotected
SPEAKER_06I believe that the real outrage from the women, and this is what I just been saying on my timeline, and what I've seen. The real outrage is uh is from black women because they don't feel protected by black men. Y'all don't go this hard when it's other women of other race that goes this route. Now all of a sudden, y'all posting memes of her track record. Y'all, y'all didn't clown him when she married Kanye. Y'all didn't clown it. Y'all actually was dapping home. We clown, we clown Kanye mess with race. We clown him. Y'all didn't clown Taylor Swift, you didn't clown in the dude.
SPEAKER_02A lot of stuff, it's not your responsibility.
SPEAKER_06But my thing is y'all clown him, but y'all, but it's still black, right? So instead of him, when he was with the white girl doing that, y'all didn't clown her, y'all clown him. And now that it's a black girl doing this, y'all clown her. It's always an animosity towards the black woman, no matter what she does.
SPEAKER_02We all was disappointed in Clay after he decided to keep fucking her. Like that she's like, yes, yes, this should have been a flame.
SPEAKER_07This was a flame, and see, y'all are in denial. Where we just this the thing with women that's not what we're talking about. Listen, when a man trying to tell us we don't want to hear it, no, not telling us, no, no, because he's telling us how they look at it, they look at it that she should have just been a fuck because of how she carries herself, exactly, how she that's not my question. That's how she is simple.
SPEAKER_06Why, when a woman has whatever track record y'all saying she has, because she's public. Come on, when y'all at public, y'all gonna know niggas track records, you know who I'm because I'm somebody public, so we know the track record. You don't know the cleaning bitch you met now with. They do.
SPEAKER_02I'm just saying we call public, not for when why why I hope you don't kiss her, you don't read the shit when they're gonna be.
SPEAKER_07I know, but you're not still bashing her. That's not what she's saying. My point is the outrage. I'm not saying nobody never bashed Hayek for being with Pimp I'm gonna be able to do that.
SPEAKER_02We're holding a Meg the Stallion to a standard that she don't even talk about. She's not that person that we should hold that standard to why why because she graduated college, kudos, but now you on there influence these young girls to twerk and hot girl summer these niggas, take these money. It's Cardi B. All these is whores. Okay, so just become dudes out here no more.
SPEAKER_07Y'all think that don't matter in it? No, I know Jill's cash do matter, but I never knew I was supposed to judge somebody off of what they do in entertainment, but it's not just entertainment. We don't know what they're doing behind closed doors. You do because when you decide to take a picture on Instagram, so now Instagram is becoming entertainment now, Facebook is becoming entertainment now, uh TikTok is becoming entertainment now because now they're getting paid to do it. So now automatically I gotta take a picture half naked because I'm getting paid to do it. So, in one standpoint, is it that I'm a woman and I'm protecting myself and my body is sacred. So that's what men is gonna take you serious when you half naked over everything, and that's the reality that women don't get. We look at it like oh, it's entertainment, it don't matter. When you get a real man that really wanted to be true, he's not gonna want his woman because he presented like that. Y'all telling me if she wasn't like that, he still wouldn't have cheated on her. He could have because they cheat on the past, exactly. So what that's that no, but you're saying that all that's true, men look at it. So this was in the Bible.
SPEAKER_02This is this is what the Bible says the Bible says you can't turn a hoe to a housewife.
SPEAKER_00This is the 11th commandment. Pause the other way though. Y'all irritated. I'm not any fucking everything. How y'all know?
SPEAKER_07That's what I'm saying. It's not about the club.
SPEAKER_02She thought she had a Russell Wilson. That's what she thought. Y'all thought that I don't believe that I don't think that is.
SPEAKER_07Go back to the what I think a real outrage is. I don't think nobody is mad.
SPEAKER_06Uh well, I ain't gonna say nobody, because I'm not speaking for the general, I'm just speaking for the man a little bit, right? A little people. I don't think nobody is really mad that he cheated. The relationship was new. You expect little shit like that when you fuck with an NBA player and whatever the case may be. I think the people are mad. I think people are mad because of all the status I'm saying, all the videos that I save is women mad because men are bashing her for her heartbreak. Why are y'all so mad at her? She hurt me.
SPEAKER_07I just think they bashing her for her heartbreak, though. That's social media shit, though. They not they they bashing her because they feel like what did she expect? They feel like certain things we should already know, and I feel the same way. I feel like people was expecting something different just because, like he said, because they thought he was a PR nigga. She was with Hardy, the man who she was with, right? That was the guy she was with before. It wasn't this much of an outrage when when she cheated on him, or he cheated on her, or whatever the case may be. The outrage is because everybody expected something different because it's Clay Thompson. So they looked at it like he's a peon. So they didn't expect this from him. They expected him to give her top-notch treatment, right?
SPEAKER_02It wouldn't have been surprised if it was Anthony Edwards.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, but I'm but nobody's still.
SPEAKER_06Making fun of her heartbake pain. Why is it? No, you a ho. Like, damn, like she was what happened, Jay? What happened? She didn't like the case. Like bitches to be dumb all day, every day. If she was dumb for the nigga, she was dumb for him. Jason But why is that funny? Jason said he's gonna answer Obama.
SPEAKER_08A lot of women started attacking Clay. Yeah. Saying that Megan made him into who he is. Nobody would know who he is if it wasn't for Megan. That's where the backlash from the men come from. Right. Oh, like her that. That is that's what I just seen that.
SPEAKER_04They keep saying I didn't hear nothing. Like she made him saying like nobody knows.
SPEAKER_02She made him somebody.
SPEAKER_04Like, well, so y'all mad? Oh, y'all couldn't lie, because she had got a woman out there.
SPEAKER_02No, what I'm saying is though, I'm gonna go. But but I'm I'm kinda okay with that.
SPEAKER_06You okay? You okay with that?
SPEAKER_02That that that that that the women that follow her don't follow a real nigga. Like, keep them hoes over there, keep them over there. Like, I'm glad y'all don't know me. Y'all shouldn't know me. I'm a I'm a solid individual. I'm not out here with these ox and whores. What do you mean? Like, for real, but we can't be mad about the comments because even it the serious posts, people troll those, right?
SPEAKER_07They do, yeah. They do they troll everything.
SPEAKER_02That's the problem with social media. You can't be sensitive because you can say shit behind closed doors and it'll go public, yes, but in public, you'll get fucked up for saying it. You get what I'm saying, right? Right, right. And so it's a lot of hams or cowards that live behind that keyboard, like you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_06We can't black people behind these keyboards, is making certain stuff go there.
SPEAKER_02I mean, but that's okay.
SPEAKER_07I mean, they just want to make everything race, and it's not about race, it's about a woman and a man. It's not it is about we all, but we always want why do we but why do we need to stand up to them?
SPEAKER_06I don't need to be because we are our own, we're the ones who hate all the white people because we hate ourselves the most. Y'all sit there and something go wrong in a black relationship that's public. We the only ones posting it. That's because we do that, they don't do that because we the ones who gonna make it go public. Say if the white man who owns T said he wanted to make it go public. We're the ones who're gonna do the most about it.
SPEAKER_04They say that they say black people are the angriest and the meanest.
SPEAKER_02That's what they say though. But y'all know that's true. Y'all know that not to be true because everybody at this table handle it in a different way.
SPEAKER_07I gotta tell you what the hell is a squash, but we just follow black people, yeah. Yeah, what is that?
SPEAKER_01It's a lot of angry black that's me and CO.
SPEAKER_07It's a lot of angry black people, they are the ones that shoot off, they the ones that do things way extreme than what we do, right? They will take out a whole school building, yeah. They will take out their whole family. But very okay, that's different. We just don't see it.
SPEAKER_06I ain't talking about that.
SPEAKER_02We don't see the white people beat themselves up because we don't follow them the way we follow our favorite people, right? So our celebrities to us, we follow them. You don't follow a lot of white people to know their everyday ins and outs, but they for sure are highly addicted to opioids. You feel me? Like these people are fucking, you feel me? Like, let's not let's oh my god, is it a Bible?
SPEAKER_05I thought you were about to say something else.
SPEAKER_01I had one, so y'all be like, oh yeah.
SPEAKER_06All right, I'll get y'all
Red Flags And Personal Standards
SPEAKER_06a question. What's some red flags that women nowadays ignore? Lies. They lie, they ignore the they know that's a red flag if that's a lie. How you know that though? I'm saying if you start dating a guy and he lies, you're not gonna know that's a lie. I'm just saying, what is a red flag that we ignore? Because we don't know what it's no such thing.
SPEAKER_07No, it's you do. That's why no one bullshit somebody's mouth. It's just learning a person. You have to go in learning the person. That's a red flag. You don't learn you, it's not really that's how you find the lies by communicating with somebody. You can't communicate if I meet you and you tell me your name is Jay.
SPEAKER_02What happened to that woman's intuition? I shouldn't have to say shit. You know what I'm saying? What are we talking about?
unknownWe gotta play our wrong words.
SPEAKER_02So so it's not red flags, in my opinion. In my opinion, it's not red flags. We have to go back to having standards, it's just certain certain women.
SPEAKER_07I'm gonna say it again. Number one rule standards.
SPEAKER_02Women won't deal with like a real woman, it's certain I know I can't.
SPEAKER_07That's why everybody don't deal with it. I know I'm not dealing with a lot of stuff. It's a lot of things I got, but the standard is set at the beginning, and that's what people let it down. I can't be on the internet with my butt out twerking, and then expect the nigga to come open the door for me and treat me all so special. But that's what we want. We want to be able to do whatever we want to do and then be like, okay, well, I don't do that no more. It don't matter. You gotta have respect for yourself. What red flags? You gotta come up with it.
SPEAKER_01I know what red flags, you y'all both got all red too. But this for sure.
SPEAKER_02But listen, when it's no, it's it's a lot of red flags though. Like, like, like if we're walking and I'm gonna open the door for you, like for real. If you I can tell if you ever had a door open for you, so when I do it and I can tell you ain't done that, I'll be mad. Like, uh oh, I'm a whole ass nigga. I just picked the wrong one. Like, yeah, I feel like Kate Thompson, like she ain't never had a door held open. Or when they put the bill down and you reach for it, like can you tell me the fruit? What type of woman are you? Who do you be dating? Like they bring the bill and you touch it. I a real woman do the fake sometimes. Yeah, I love that too, man. I'll be like do the little fake. I don't want to see it. The fake reach for the person.
SPEAKER_07The fake reach for the person. Oh, you want to put a fake person. I love it.
SPEAKER_01It's cute. Like I'm about to go for the bathroom.
SPEAKER_07But see, I was gonna say the same thing, like Jen and Shah kind of touched on it too. You always like when we sit and having those conversations, you go off a person's lifestyle. Like, to me, I feel like how you live your life is it can be a red flag or it can be a green flag or it can be in the middle. You know what I'm saying? Like, okay, what we doing, you know. So, like if a person is not living a life, like to not so much to my standards, but to something, you know, doing something with their life, like got a job, got a car, got a house. Like, we we're pretty much in our 40s.
SPEAKER_02If you've been dating somebody for two years and they ain't got no car, if they ain't got no car in two years, no, we do it and come up with excuses. That pull your pussy value down.
SPEAKER_04So we say, but that's what I'm saying. Like, no, so do y'all hear what he's telling y'all? Okay, so we judging the book off its cover, right? Do y'all judge people off their Facebook and statuses and stuff like that? Yes, I do too. When people be putting stuff on there, they be like, I'm just posting this. No, you feel that way. Your ass is depressed.
SPEAKER_07No, you talking about something on serious. So listen, so this is gonna take us back to Meg and Clay then. So you saying that, right? Okay how do y'all think a man feel when you open up the internet and the first thing you see is your woman ass? How what how what how do a man feel? Because this is your job, and you uh a model, or you would do you think that man don't feel some type of way about that? So before he got with her, he knew what she was doing.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, yeah. So y'all saying as soon as they lock in, yeah, she gotta cut all her deals. Yes, it's not even about no, I'm saying she gotta cut her all right then and there, y'all want her to cut it.
SPEAKER_05Right meaning for you, you're gonna do it anyway.
SPEAKER_04But right then and there, y'all want her to do it, right? And nothing.
SPEAKER_05I just see a change, but you can't see a change, or it should be a conversation, a conversation.
SPEAKER_07You feel me?
SPEAKER_04But I don't feel like you should just cut off all her money, like y'all say, he's rich.
SPEAKER_07He can leave her at any time. That's not cutting off your money, your job, her money, but your job and your entertainment is like real talent, but her entertainment, her talent is being naked, you just said shaking her out. That's why he's been getting climbed. It's not about so what does Beyonce do? She does both.
SPEAKER_02Beyonce shows her ass now after being married for some time, after being a married, but it's in a classy way, but it's in a class, but it's always been that way.
SPEAKER_07That wouldn't be a what you do, it's how you do it, but she's always been that way, though. It'd be a yeah, drastic change. Yeah, started doing that. But you think she would have had Jay-Z if she was on the internet, and I'm UCL.
SPEAKER_02That's all it takes.
SPEAKER_04We wasn't together that long. She didn't change nothing. We weren't there behind closed doors.
SPEAKER_02Because y'all follow her.
SPEAKER_07Y'all know we shaking ass.
SPEAKER_06All right, I got a question.
Spotting Serious Intentions From Men
SPEAKER_06How can you tell if a man is has serious intentions for you if many other men are doing the same things they do for one of the people?
SPEAKER_02I feel like bitches I know sent you these questions.
SPEAKER_06I mean, I can't.
SPEAKER_00Is a female like, oh, let me send these questions in. I need to know the answer. What you say? I ain't even gonna be able to do that. Okay, so how can you tell?
SPEAKER_06So how can you tell a man? How can you tell if a man is have serious intentions for you if many of the men are still doing the same things for the woman they don't have uh serious intentions for her? So if you're dating a girl that you really don't even care about, you do the same thing for her that you do for me. So how am I supposed to tell the difference?
SPEAKER_04Okay, go ahead.
SPEAKER_02A nigga get mad at you. Like, if I if I'm holding you to a standard and I want you to have a peace or a place in my life, I'ma really get an attitude when you do certain shit. Now, if you just a fling or I'm just dealing with you, I might get upset and drop you off, but like like that might be the last time you see me. But like when you come back and I bring that same shit up, like listen, that's because men have higher standards than women. And people just don't acknowledge it. It's certain shit we ain't going for. Like, it's over for. We not accepting that shit. So if I'm mad at you, that means I care about you. Like, I know you ain't about to play in my face.
SPEAKER_07And we don't that is true. It's sad. We don't have those standards. And if it'd be the small shit we get mad at. And we don't even know that. And they don't have the chance.
SPEAKER_01And then they can bring it up next month.
SPEAKER_07Like, hey, we don't either. They try to get your standards. Yeah, no, that is true. They, I mean, they want you to, they h like he said, they hold you to a certain standard. But if you hold yourself to that certain standard, then therefore it's not gonna be nothing that a man could be able to come and ask for the change.
SPEAKER_02Don't hide niggas' comments now. This is my congregation.
SPEAKER_00This is the Bible.
SPEAKER_02This is the Bible.
SPEAKER_00It was true.
SPEAKER_02Okay, okay.
SPEAKER_04I like that.
SPEAKER_02I'm just saying, though, like it's different.
SPEAKER_04Okay, so that's the only way when y'all get mad.
SPEAKER_02No, I'm just saying that's one thing you can tell, like if somebody really takes you serious. Like, because but but I feel like y'all judge a nigga early.
SPEAKER_07I feel like you know already, and you know when they full of shit and you don't want to because either the sex is good, so you still dealing with it, or either you want to deal with what they dealing with. Nine times out of ten times women just be broke already.
SPEAKER_02Can we acknowledge that? Women just be broke, yeah.
SPEAKER_07So they put up with stuff.
SPEAKER_02You got to you, you got to. You need this little $200.
SPEAKER_04Yes, you need this little you know, it's a lot of women taking money over love. I was I probably do a next because love might never be a little bit more than a big thing. No, I don't be like that.
SPEAKER_06So wait, which one y'all think is winning that battle, though? More women are lonely and dealing with it, or one more women are broke and dealing with it. I don't think it's no woman just lonely. I say lonely.
SPEAKER_02Because if you look good, if you look good, you ain't never truly lonely.
SPEAKER_04You can't say that without nobody else's friend, you know, but you still getting that attention. Women can't, but it's not the attention that we want. Y'all be thinking we want certain attention, we be wanting certain attention from the man we want, but y'all think just because another man compliment me or trying to get my number or something, that's gonna do it.
SPEAKER_02No, we women, we know what we want, but women need to understand sometimes the man you want, you're not in the position to have this type of man, and we and that's and that's fine, but we still ain't entertaining the one that we don't want. Yeah, y'all are. I'm not, I'm not. I'm not I for sure. Man, I can name a bunch of women that dealt with me.
SPEAKER_04You're gonna know I don't want you. They deal with me, it don't stop.
SPEAKER_02I'm respected, I'm tolerated, I'm not like I might have entertained you. She ain't gotta like me, she gonna tolerate me.
SPEAKER_07In our younger gear, when you was younger, I most definitely entertained niggas that I didn't like you for real. Yeah, I entertain niggas that I didn't like for real for no reason.
SPEAKER_02Y'all standards up now.
SPEAKER_01Like the standards came up like, oh dog. Right. We ain't fucking in that back seat no more. You better get a robe.
SPEAKER_04You better get a room, nigga. But no, we gotta have standards as women. We grown as heck. What do we do? I'm not going to your mama's basement. I'm not. But women do it. Women that still do it. I'm not about to get in your sister's car. No, I'm not. Standards. So where's your standards?
SPEAKER_07You have no standards. Exactly.
SPEAKER_03No.
SPEAKER_07The same for men. So why men can't have a standard to say, I don't want a woman that shows her body on the internet, or I don't want a woman that's twerking, or I don't want when they do that, it's like, oh, now they want us to change. And now they you should want to change. I would feel some type of way if my man buff, body all built, he got his package out, and I opened up Instagram, and he got on um speedo drawers. He about to go dive in the pool because he's a professional swimmer. But every time I go on Instagram, he got his speedos on. I will have a problem with that. It's the same thing for women, yeah. But we don't see and then we get our sister circle together, and they oh well, he wants you to change. Well, you shouldn't be with him there because why he got a problem with you being naked? You should have a problem. Your six-year-old might pick up the phone and see you on the internet naked. How is that not a problem? But uh hey, you know, they're gonna dog me up.
SPEAKER_02It's the women's energy, though. It's y'all making these hoes feel comfortable with being hoes.
SPEAKER_00It is true. Y'all ain't y'all ain't when it when the last bitch y'all called out for being a whore.
SPEAKER_02Check out so it ain't hoes don't exist no more. What what happened to the runners? Like these bitches are still hoes and runners.
SPEAKER_04They know what they are.
SPEAKER_02But y'all gonna call the nigga out. No, I don't y'all gonna call the nigga out. Well, y'all gonna be mad. Y'all gonna be mad that I treat her like a hoe.
SPEAKER_00Like what she is, yeah. But she good, she can rap.
SPEAKER_07Huh? How did how is it our fault again? No, he ain't say it was our fault.
SPEAKER_02No, no, the same way you just said, the same way you said you was in the you was in the comments getting triggered by these men responsive. The real men was triggered by the women that we held standards to supporting the hoes about to get a ring before the real bitches. Like y'all wanted her to get a ring before he just wanted to play with her in public.
SPEAKER_07Why do we why did he bring her in public?
SPEAKER_02It's just tricking. Why not?
SPEAKER_07Everything in public. We haven't fun.
SPEAKER_02We haven't fun. Yeah, everything. I don't want nobody tricking. Why not? He on the back end, why not? He's on the back end of his career, right? For one. I mean, that maybe he on the he on the back end of his career. So right now, what he's probably doing is building up his following.
SPEAKER_04That's what I said to a certain extent.
SPEAKER_02Building up his following and still standard.
SPEAKER_07Y'all say he's known, so how's building up his powers?
SPEAKER_02The women ain't know him like that. Now y'all do. Now y'all do. And y'all mad that he cheated.
SPEAKER_07Like he cheated. Allegedly. I didn't think that was. I'm sorry. I didn't think that was never rude for like top five shooters of all time.
SPEAKER_02So he's shooting this shot at bitch. When when has he not been?
SPEAKER_07I'm not saying that's a thing to the women that didn't know him, remember?
SPEAKER_02Play six five.
SPEAKER_04Now that they know he got money, they probably all those people don't know.
SPEAKER_02300 million.
SPEAKER_00If I was six five with a thousand dollars, it's two.
SPEAKER_02What are you talking about? I had a couple dollars. I'm straight, so I know. If I'm going through this shit, I can imagine.
SPEAKER_07The thing about it is we be thinking that all of this takes place because it's money. When I tell people all the time, like I know people who live this way personally. I know a nigga that didn't have a car, a house, or nothing that had two bitches living together pregnant at the same time. That's what I'm saying, and he was broke. So I broke why I would make sure I think that money is gonna change anything. If anything, that makes it worse. It does because it opened up the door to for all types of stuff. So the number one thing is character, yeah, standards. A nigga gonna do such y'all. A nigga gonna be how he gonna be. What type of nigga was he? So, what do y'all think? Like, everybody don't know. Why do y'all think broke it off?
SPEAKER_04If y'all knew she already knew what was the red flags, he broke it off.
SPEAKER_02She had no leverage, she ain't got no leverage. He said he didn't want to be monogamous, yeah.
SPEAKER_04But I'm saying he been through that, like you said, he been through that.
SPEAKER_02No, he tried, and that's what we do as many.
SPEAKER_04How you gonna say he tried? How you know he tried?
SPEAKER_02Because he stayed with her, just her, allegedly, allegedly.
SPEAKER_07So, in the beginning of a relationship, let me ask y'all this. So, in the beginning of a relationship, you dealing with a guy for three, four months or whatever. Are we saying we in a relationship? No, we gotta have that conversation, right? So, just because I'm with you every single day, I don't know. It's like they don't have a conversation. Just because I'm with you every single day, and you pulling up and we together and we take a picture, I don't mean I'm with you and I'm a woman.
SPEAKER_02There's some real bitches out here that'll call you like you with that bitch. All right, bye. Exactly. Respect what I'm doing right now because it's my choice. Exactly. At the end of the day, if I we can't look at it like that, it's my choice. Like you ain't proposing, you ain't nobody in here gonna propose to no nigga. Nope.
SPEAKER_04Hell no. So what y'all gotta understand is I wish y'all, if y'all notice what we know my new y'all better slap the shit out.
SPEAKER_02Forever is a long time, though. You know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_07That comment right there. Money can't be. But we've been saying that because y'all just talking about money. But no, it can't.
SPEAKER_05No, it can't. It's real. They don't be in love.
SPEAKER_07Some females build like men. I can't, but I see women give their whole life up because they're not money by discretion.
SPEAKER_00If I do she then shut up, that's that be in house.
SPEAKER_07Some people don't want love to love. But some people don't want love. They don't. They want money. They
Money Versus Love Versus Happiness
SPEAKER_07want the money. There we go. It doesn't buy love, it buys comfort.
SPEAKER_02How valuable is love?
SPEAKER_07Very valuable, very valuable. It should be very valuable. It's valuable.
SPEAKER_02Don't say it should be.
SPEAKER_07No, it should be better, it's very valuable. It should. It's it's it's it shouldn't be compared to nothing.
SPEAKER_02So you put love over happiness.
SPEAKER_07You want your mama to love you? Happiness is not a good one. I want my happiness. My happiness is my happiness. Yes, happiness is over love. That's hard too. It's hard. That's hard. That's a hard question. It is.
SPEAKER_05Y'all answered the past like it wasn't.
SPEAKER_07Because I know. Because a lot of people look at overrated on it, but a lot of people have never really experienced experienced true happiness. That's why I said they never they don't know what true happiness is. Okay, sorry. You said happiness over love. Yeah, or love over happiness. And you said a lot of people have not. Which one would you spirit over happiness? Happiness. Happiness. I want both.
SPEAKER_02I ain't gonna lie. I'm I'm picking love.
SPEAKER_07I'm gonna pick love. I'm gonna pick happiness.
SPEAKER_02Because like if if I love you, I'm gonna pick love. Your happiness matters to me.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Like your happiness. I can be upset. As long as you okay, we can get back right. Cause I'm a man. You know what I'm saying? So as a man, niggas ain't our happiness depends on how y'all feeling. We can be we can come home and had a great, a great day and see your face and be like, oh baby, what the fuck? Like you feel me? Like we're about to go tear some shit up.
SPEAKER_06So I can't choose you know that's over happiness over love. Right, because happiness it can come and go all day. All day. Yeah. I can be happy to shoot today and love kids, but love can too.
SPEAKER_07And the reason why. But love can also bring respect too. But with hap, but if I'm happy, the love is a love coming, it's just automatic. It's gone. Agape love.
SPEAKER_01Agape. You got the dress.
SPEAKER_00I knew I was close though. You feel me? Look, it's in the Bible. Yeah, yeah. That's okay. I knew who to go to. I got I was close though. What did you call it?
SPEAKER_02Agape. Agape. Yeah, yeah. That's my West Side. You know what I'm saying? That's yeah, I said it right. It was just my ass.
SPEAKER_07Let us know in the comments though. Happiness or love. That's $40 is $40, though. Everything makes you happy, but that's not won't forever shit. That's that's deep. But people do a lot of things for money. I mean a lot. Sell they soul for money. You can look, you can look at the people with who they choose to be with and the things that they accept. It's like how much you're willing to accept for the money. Yeah, people stay in these relationships, stay in marriages, stay in all of these different situationships because of what they're getting out of it.
SPEAKER_04So I still agree with Crystal about the bash and though. I really do agree with that. A lot of men seem to bash women before they bash their homeboys. Accountability, okay, that's fine. But y'all do y'all will bash a woman soon as she gets hurt. But y'all won't do that for a man.
SPEAKER_02It's different. It's not different, it's different on both sides, though. I'm not just saying just for the women, I'm saying it's just different because, like, she I don't, I don't, I ain't into just bashing people. If I say something that people don't agree with, y'all consider it bashing. And it's just my point of view.
SPEAKER_00Right.
SPEAKER_02But I just feel like he got it worse at the beginning. Like, I know you ain't got this bitch and no jet ski. Niggas was mad. I know you ain't got this bitch on your page, bro. I ain't seen nothing. It's the same bitch we just seen.
SPEAKER_06Like, you know, is that the same? Is that the for women across the board?
SPEAKER_02What you mean?
SPEAKER_06I'm like for the examples I gave earlier when it came down.
SPEAKER_02Can we stop calling just all women women?
SPEAKER_06What are we? Stop calling all of them women. It's levels to it. It's levels to it, though.
SPEAKER_02It's levels to it. It's like you got niggas, then you got real niggas, then you got me. We know that. You know what I'm saying? Like you're not gonna be. I would say so.
SPEAKER_04And what's a real nigga?
SPEAKER_02A real nigga is a nigga that do this shit and still be on fuck shit.
SPEAKER_04I don't want no niggas talk.
SPEAKER_02You get what I'm saying? You can still be on fuck shit, but you'll still do it, so you then be like, Yeah, that's a real nigga. But then you got just niggas that just don't do shit. You get what I'm saying? That'll argue with you in public. Like you feel me? Like those sucker ass niggas. Like you feel me. It's levels on both sides though, because then it's horse. I'm a surface of the bottom. I'ma I'ma build up. I'm just saying, it's levels to it. It's levels to it though. Because like we we can't hold Meg the stallion and just be like, Yeah, this is the she not the prototype, like she not the one that we are. Like, you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_04Like, so who would y'all have liked to see her in?
SPEAKER_06She the type that if a woman play topson because he ain't not he's not.
SPEAKER_02I put like this play Thompson's friends that's y'all say he got a track record too. His friends would have stood shot a shot at her, and all that. So he's you know what I'm saying? He would his friends would have stood, shot they shot at Meg the Stouty. They still is, but they would have did it while they were still fucking with her, you know what I'm saying? Like because she's that type of bitch.
SPEAKER_04So is that the only way a man does that's a good thing? Yeah, that's a good thing.
SPEAKER_02I'm just saying, she's that type of female. Like, like, like I I I'll put you.
SPEAKER_07She ain't off limits.
SPEAKER_02That's what I'm saying. I've been I've been knowing you, you know what I'm saying? And when bro got with you, I'll put it like this couldn't nobody talk to you, right? Like, period. Nigga, could they was getting fucked up by me if I just heard of it? Like, you can't even come around me if you don't respect that bro got her. You know what I'm saying? She always had her shit. Like, you know what I'm saying? That's a splash brother. Yeah, but it's like it was it was different, and I know they just went through whatever they went through, you know what I'm saying? Like it was dressed and all that shit, but like we we always even even people that don't have respect respected that, and that's because how she carried herself, right? You feel me? Like, you feel me? You have no choice but to follow suit.
SPEAKER_04Because Jen got the fuck off face anyway, so they wasn't even gonna come by her. That's what I'm saying.
SPEAKER_02Like, she's not gonna be crazy, niggas be crazy though.
SPEAKER_07But I but it is a standard that you set for yourself. That's why I say I'm like, niggas, I set the standard where a nigga not gonna test me right because I don't set myself up for that. I feel like if I was on the internet and I was showing my ass, or I was doing then, of course, niggas gonna be trying to come at me whether I marry or not. But what I give off is okay, that's off limits. Right, that's what you're supposed to do when you marry or in a relationship, or this is what you but that comes and it comes with respect for your cocoa Jones would have been better with Clay, in my opinion.
SPEAKER_02But I like that.
SPEAKER_07But he was with her already. I know she got married, didn't she? Didn't she about to she marry she about to get married? The spider, right? Okay, and she's a different type of woman, she's a different type of woman, it's just different types.
SPEAKER_06So, wait, he cheated on her too, right?
SPEAKER_02Who? Allegedly, allegedly, maybe okay, who so you but we should all accept a man that is honest enough to tell y'all this. I'm not ready for this yet.
SPEAKER_07I do respect the right way. I think y'all doing weight for the wheel.
SPEAKER_02No, I think I think y'all, I think it's the it's the it's the woman. Like if I ain't ready for it, don't mean I don't want to take you out. Let me take you out. I'll take you out of town. I'll take you out of town. Let's still do, but I'm still not ready for that.
SPEAKER_07I don't know. If they're in that space, they'll be okay with that.
SPEAKER_01But what's wrong with it?
SPEAKER_07No, it's nothing wrong with it if that's what you want. But you're not about to get relationship treatment off of me.
SPEAKER_04And just because you take me out of town, don't mean we have I need it.
SPEAKER_02I don't need it.
SPEAKER_04But sometimes y'all be wanting a lot of stuff, and y'all have you know, restrict y'all be wanting stuff, and y'all get mad when we say no, but you want it your way. So if you're taking me out of town, don't expect to get nothing because like you said, we just having fun.
SPEAKER_02I'm expecting fun.
SPEAKER_04That's not no, we ain't having that much.
SPEAKER_07And see, me, I'm not going out of town, I'm not going out of town with a nigga that I don't expect to have sex with. That probably because what do I think that he thinks finna happen tonight when we go to sleep? That's what I mean by women going in delusional. It's like you think a nigga finna pay for you to go out of town, be in this nice hotel, nice uh shower, all this, and we finna just lay next to each other. Come on now. It's not I mean they gonna do one exactly, and what was he?
SPEAKER_02But did you like him? But don't don't think because you gave a nigga some pussy, he owed you. You didn't like him because he hit like this because a nigga hit don't be you like he owe you now, like shit about the change. Like everybody we had a good time.
SPEAKER_00Sometimes you just have a good time, like and I'm okay.
SPEAKER_02But now but now we have no title, right? In this situation, we out of town. I'm opening the door for you. When you whoop me, you mind, because that's in the contract. I'm gonna treat you like you want to be treated. Because I'm gonna treat you, I'm gonna treat you like you want to be treated if you got that level of respect, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, I am though. That don't mean you know what I'm saying, but you can't force a relationship out of me just because you want one, like right.
SPEAKER_07Come on, that's true, right? If we knew the power that we really had, it would be crazy.
SPEAKER_02I know if we knew the power, we would fellas. If y'all listen to me, I'm trying to tell y'all though. I ain't going. I'm gonna tell y'all right now, fellas.
SPEAKER_07Treat a nigga just like how he treats you. That's the way you're gonna get it. That's how you however you want it to be, that's how it's gonna be. If we answering other, if you got lineup, I gotta line up. If you want us to be friends, we can be friends. Whatever you're doing, that's what I'm doing.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, if you're a woman of value, you can do that. Yeah, you can do that if you are at that standard. If you're at that standard, you shouldn't be around men that can't handle that.
SPEAKER_07They're gonna be able to handle it because the way you're gonna be doing it, it's gonna be different.
SPEAKER_02Yo, I'm not gonna see my girl just out at these, like at Mandy's and shit. See my bitch, see my bitch at Mandy's. Yeah, I see that.
SPEAKER_00Okay, all right, we in the same aggregate. What happened?
Social Media Image And Relationship Respect
SPEAKER_04What happened? They was all at the bar jumping on each other. Two girls was on the floor. No, no, we gonna snail this.
SPEAKER_02That's what I'm saying. Y'all can't put yourself in these situations.
SPEAKER_07Who gonna take those girls seriously? Y'all want somebody to take them seriously? So if a guy cheat on them or out there and he treating her like how she's treating herself and what she's representing for herself, how are we mad right when this is what you give? If you getting done up, because I ain't gonna say the word F in the back alley and the back of the club or on the bus. What am I gonna think is special about that? I just was able to do you outside. I was just able how and tomorrow you gonna think you're special, you can't, bro. You can't it's no way.
SPEAKER_02Why was it not real women upset with the fact that Klay Thompson took her serious?
SPEAKER_07He didn't take her serious. See, I don't think he did. I don't think so.
SPEAKER_02I'm talking about in the first part, in the first point, because if y'all ain't think she he took her serious, I never y'all wouldn't be upset about this.
SPEAKER_07I'm not upset that he's not. I think everybody upset y'all laughing at it.
SPEAKER_06She was mad about it. We don't even know if she was mad about it.
SPEAKER_02It should have been women like I know you ain't about to fuck with her. I know you're not about to fuck with her.
SPEAKER_07It should have been women saying that it's not really about what's wrong with her.
SPEAKER_02Go to her top five songs and read the lyrics.
SPEAKER_07I can tell by the drink.
SPEAKER_01I can tell you what going like this ain't right. This ain't right.
SPEAKER_07This ain't right. I don't know, it just wasn't getting a relationship. So just I mean, if the purpose that we match, they don't mean they just didn't even look right together. You know, but do y'all know why? It's because of the type of woman she is and the type of guy that he is. But when you say it like that, it sounds bad. They do, but it but it is what it is, it's reality. I really don't know neither one of them. So both that's all I'm saying. Both of them are off of how and that's why it didn't work out.
SPEAKER_02No, that's not true. It's it's it's a lot of couples that ain't shit that that that get off. They they get off, they really work well together. You ain't looking for me, bitch. I ain't looking for you either.
SPEAKER_00Because this is the type of relationship that's free time to cheat.
SPEAKER_02So wait, she cheating now.
SPEAKER_06We got all this free time. So let's just say they got together. Yeah, say y'all didn't like him with her because she wasn't wherever y'all wanted her to be, but he ain't that either, right? Well, as you can't choose, no, I'm saying because y'all don't know her how would he not be that same track record?
SPEAKER_02What woman don't want to honestly not rapping about his?
SPEAKER_06She's he ain't an honest man now. We ain't about to say that because he cheating.
SPEAKER_07They say because the honest nigga gonna be like this what I'm doing. I want you to tell me if you want to be out here doing how y'all know her track, let me decide. Don't feel with a nigga. I feel like he said I feel like he might have too. I feel like he might have said it. He might have said it, yes, especially when she was.
SPEAKER_05We don't feel like like this the type of bitch she is, though.
SPEAKER_00Like she was laying with the nigga and took a picture of this tattoo. You know not to take a picture of it. You feel me? You already know. I'm not gonna say that. You know nothing about what did you say?
SPEAKER_07This might be a publicity stuff. She took pictures with him, right?
SPEAKER_02I didn't show him showing the nigga tattoos and shit.
SPEAKER_07That's how she did it in the beginning. Yeah, in the beginning.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, because you already understand.
SPEAKER_06I'm not on that. They're celebrities, they try to keep stuff quiet all the time. That ain't got nothing to do with he told her that that's not what it is. Y'all just stop fucking around. You don't want to make nothing big. Why would I post you if I just start with it?
SPEAKER_02Man, you know how many bitches and posting my hands at on the at the at the restaurant?
SPEAKER_06I'm not gonna go.
SPEAKER_00What am I with? Like bitch in the car, want to take a selfie in the car?
SPEAKER_03I'm like, all right, chill.
SPEAKER_00Like, what I'm about to do.
SPEAKER_07This is what I want to know, and I wouldn't know have anybody else seen it out there because I haven't. Have anybody saw him saying or posting anything about I'm talking about beforehand, beforehand about her? Yeah, no, have he posted her? Did he say they was in a relationship? No, have she been on his story? Have she been on his page? Or did we only see this from her? Because we know as women, this is what we do. I saw it on his page, too. You saw it on his page, not as much as her. That's why I always like it. Okay, I know that for me.
SPEAKER_02No, he only posted the shit he had to post.
SPEAKER_07What you mean has to?
SPEAKER_02We're already at the point that you posted something that that went that went viral.
SPEAKER_07What did she post?
SPEAKER_02So I acknowledge that I'm here. Oh like like you know what I'm saying? Like acknowledging you're here with my family type shit for Thanksgiving.
SPEAKER_07That's what she posted.
SPEAKER_02Uh all the posts didn't go viral. If you get what I'm saying, certain posts went viral, though. She posted a lot. Man, ain't no followers. Ain't nobody gonna be a good one. Yeah, you don't marry people posted. You don't marry Meg the Stallion for her food. You're not gonna be, you're not with this bitch, but you know what I'm saying? She ain't gorge Rebsy.
SPEAKER_07You just like oh, yeah, I think you start getting somebody to really love and value you when this is what you present for yourself. No, as women, we just gotta know that. We value you to sleep with you, but that's what your value is to make you my wife or to make you somebody special, you have to be special, you have to be different. You can't be the average girl. That's just like women in a relationship. Okay, you could be in a relationship and you and your man posting up and you half naked and all that. Eventually, that got to come to an end at some point. If if not, he's not gonna take you serious. Very true. I don't care what you say, it's he's not gonna take you serious.
SPEAKER_02And I'm glad niggas ain't I'm glad niggas not taking these whores serious. I'm glad it's real niggas coming back. We coming back.
SPEAKER_04So she had posted something about he was going through something.
SPEAKER_02He ain't posted. Why was she posted? And then now think like that. Think like that. Now you fucking with my job. You fucking with my job.
SPEAKER_07Why now?
SPEAKER_02If I have a bad game and try to vent to you, why is you talking about this shit? That's why I don't think you're gonna fuck up my next contract.
SPEAKER_04It didn't look easy. She wasn't right when he had moose swings and bad games, he would take it out on her.
SPEAKER_02She got moon swings when uh Tory Lane's got stabbed.
SPEAKER_05Why do you like read that up? Why can't we leave him in jail?
SPEAKER_07He needs to be out situation.
SPEAKER_02He needs to be out.
SPEAKER_07Who's not gonna be mad after a game? Come on now, but taking it out on her?
SPEAKER_02What you mean taking it out?
SPEAKER_07I'm not taking my anchor out on my partner. She didn't say that. But that's the thing. No, she did say that he had a moon swing.
SPEAKER_02But yeah, so if I'm upset and you can't deal with that, what that means about us?
SPEAKER_07Well, what are you doing to be bothered with him? Like if he said leave me alone and you keep messing with him, then yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna take it off. How y'all know she was messing with?
SPEAKER_02Exactly. We don't because she described it as a moon swing.
SPEAKER_06She said, Yeah, after he lost the gamer. One of our comments says, Why can't her public image be just that for entertainment? Who said that?
SPEAKER_02That's what I think is that who is that? Who is that? Who is saying this? Who is saying this?
SPEAKER_07Name one public is your image. That's what women gotta do.
SPEAKER_02Name one woman that talks like that. Name one person that talks like that, that's not really like that. We don't respect the people that's not about that life.
SPEAKER_07I love because they bought that life. I love me because I like that music.
SPEAKER_02You ain't doing it, Cardi.
SPEAKER_07But I'm gonna say, hold on, I ain't doing that. I'm working her down. But I'm not getting that. Somebody gotta do it. There's not enough money to pay me. That's what I mean about standard. There's certain things that I'm just not gonna do. Just not gonna do people be like, oh, with this money, don't clean. But that woman cooks and she cleans.
SPEAKER_00Shut up. You talking about the stripper.
SPEAKER_07That's what her husband said, but that's what her husband said. She don't cook, she don't clean, but she she does cook and she clean. He said that. The song don't necessarily that's where she lives. You know what I'm saying? I'm not saying that.
SPEAKER_02That don't mean to his nephew.
SPEAKER_07That's her life. Nobody knows you, right? We believe in no lies. They don't know you, you go there, you go to work.
SPEAKER_03That's no job, right?
SPEAKER_07But if you went there every day and you wore, let's say, you wore the leggings that got the thing in between the booty. Oh, come to the booty that push your booty up with the zip-up shirt with your boobs out. But this your outfit that this your work, this is what you consider your work outfit, that's what you're gonna be known for. It's gonna be Kira with the tight pants with the leggings with the booty. Period. Kira the booty. I'm trying to get that name. Thank you. So when you post it on the internet, because you give it away. Is it not the same thing? That's what I think. But as a woman, you're not supposed to be able to say you're supposed to be okay with that.
SPEAKER_02Now look at Jill Scott.
SPEAKER_07Women posting on the internet.
SPEAKER_02She's solid, right?
unknownShe's solid.
SPEAKER_02Now you see how y'all all set up. Like, wait, what you about to say? Now have the opposite energy when we're talking about Meg the Stallion. Because they on two different plateaus.
SPEAKER_07I don't have I don't listen. I'ma use Janae Ako. Her song Say Some Stuff. Put some fairy all that. Okay. But how she carries herself, people it's a different Pertona. It's totally different.
SPEAKER_02Right.
SPEAKER_07She's not in hip hop.
SPEAKER_02Ain't no nigga ever not gonna pull out of Meg the Stallion. Like a nigga gonna jump out of my face. I'm gonna say Nicki Minaj.
SPEAKER_07She in hip hop, it can still be the same. She's never naked. What are you talking about? No. When she's free baby, no. And I'm not a Nikki fan. I don't like her. She wore when whipped cream in every video she's covering up areas like. But when she posts regularly, yeah. On on Instagram, and she's Nikki, she got on clothes. I was just imagining. No, we're holding on. You ain't never seen Meg post pictures of herself correctly. No makeup, no wig, no, just her regular. She puts that order hair out, but I never saw her. You ain't getting no like on follow her. That's all I'm saying. I don't. She do post that she posts regular shit in her like jogging pants and teacher. I mean, so many of them post orders. I can get y'all. It's so many of them that I'd be like, oh no, take her serious, just like how I say with men. I'd be like, but Nick take her serious. He's slow. Nikki. The same thing about a female.
SPEAKER_01Nikki husband got that record.
SPEAKER_07You know, but this is what her husband got that record. That we record that we got.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Yeah, that PDF. He got that PDF. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_07Okay. Yes, girl at the planet gonna be daubed out if that's what she wears to work every day. But she not, she goes to work every day naked. It don't mean that that's what you got to do because you are an entertainer. There's plenty of entertainers that don't have to show their body that don't gotta be naked, that don't get them the same amount of money. True, and that's a different conversation on it because she came in high.
SPEAKER_02That's her thing.
SPEAKER_06So if she wanted somebody to take her different seriously, if she wants to settle down and change how she be seen as a woman, that's that's a process that she gotta take on her own. I don't think it just comes from dating a guy. You knew who I was when we started dating me. So don't expect me to just stop doing all it up front. Now, if you're gonna start, if they like each other, like each other, you're gonna start seeing them changes. You're gonna see her trying to rebrand herself. I don't think she didn't know.
SPEAKER_02It ain't even a rebranding, though. It's not a rebranding, it's being respectful because it's steps to everything.
SPEAKER_06She likes who she wants, she's gonna want to start somewhere. Even without a nigga, bitches can change they how they are on their own. She did do that. She's ready to make that change.
SPEAKER_07He might have because that's his character. We already know he achieved it. We don't know that. We don't know that.
SPEAKER_02That man was faithful talking to the warriors.
SPEAKER_07So explain why Holly Berry got cheated on.
SPEAKER_02Right.
SPEAKER_07Because she was dating outside her race.
SPEAKER_02She was dating outside her race.
SPEAKER_07No. I don't know about that. We're gonna cut this.
Cheating Comes Down To Character
SPEAKER_07We're gonna come back. No, we're gonna leave it at this.
SPEAKER_06If y'all don't agree, we'll come back on it. We're gonna leave it at this or this. The woman has nothing to do with a nigga cheating. No. At all. He needs to be disciplined and know what he wants, and then he won't cheat. It has nothing to do with women. It's a character cheating in themselves.
SPEAKER_02So are we all gonna agree on this?
SPEAKER_06You better.
SPEAKER_02We all gonna agree on this.
SPEAKER_07Yes. That fine, ugly, fat, skinny, pretty, under that.
SPEAKER_02If a man has never cheated and a woman gonna cheat, she's gonna cheat.
SPEAKER_07Because we can do it. Don't marry him. That's the thing. If what?
SPEAKER_02If he's never cheated, if he can never tell you a story of him. Cheating on a female, y'all should never marry this because he's lying. Or or he, if he's telling the truth, he's gonna cheat on you. All men gotta know that that cheating is wrong, right? When you when you first start to cheat, when you first start to cheat, we're not taught that it's wrong. It's okay.
SPEAKER_07What about when y'all know that also?
SPEAKER_02No, that's that wasn't a stone.
SPEAKER_07Is it the same thing? Is that how women know that cheating is wrong?
SPEAKER_02Two different things.
SPEAKER_07How that's two different things though, because we acting as if women don't cheat.
SPEAKER_02Because you're a woman.
SPEAKER_07So what do that mean though?
SPEAKER_02Men cheating is different than women cheating.
SPEAKER_07Why?
SPEAKER_02Because y'all not hunters. We are hunters, it's not in y'all to hunt. Y'all not built for this. Y'all not built for this shit. We do not emotional.
SPEAKER_04We are emotional. We do it bad.
SPEAKER_02We're not emotional.
SPEAKER_04But we can do it bad. I mean, that just we gotta grow and cheat, and then don't mean that. We have to grow to have it. Y'all think every woman is emotional is a bunch of people. They are wise because they couldn't have it.
SPEAKER_02Consider like
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SPEAKER_02compared to men, you are emotional.
SPEAKER_04Okay, I'll take that for right now.
SPEAKER_02All right, my fault. I know we are checking. I'm like, oh what's it?
SPEAKER_07But no, you're right when she got cheated on y'all. Please. I I agree with your statement.
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